As we approach the significant moment of marriage, we promise our beloved partner a lifetime of devotion, vowing to love them through every stage and circumstance. However, have you ever considered that, in becoming a wife and potentially a mother, it is even more crucial to remember to love yourself?
In honor of International Women’s Day on March 8th, let’s explore how women today can balance family and career while still enjoying life.
Don’t let the word “busy” become an excuse. Your life should not be solely driven by household chores and work obligations. If you have interests that you have always cherished, I encourage you to continue pursuing them. If you currently lack a hobby, take the time to seek out something new that brings you joy. Engaging in activities you love will not only provide you with a sense of fulfillment but also prevent your life from becoming monotonous. Embrace your passions and allow them to add richness and vibrancy to your everyday experience.
While it is natural to hope that others will create meaningful moments for you, such expectations can sometimes lead to disappointment. Remember, you don’t have to wait for special occasions to enjoy the beauty of rituals! Indulge in a delightful and exquisite breakfast using your favorite dishes, take a soothing bath with skincare salts you have chosen yourself, or light a scented candle during your meditation time to create a peaceful atmosphere.
Of course, it’s important not to spend recklessly. In this age of convenient online shopping, we often find ourselves browsing websites during our commutes, lunch breaks, or right before bed, resulting in impulsive purchases of items we may not need. Rather than buying randomly, set aside time to thoughtfully select high-quality gifts for yourself. This way, each time you use them, you can feel the value of your own worth.
Never expect others to read your mind, and don’t feel disheartened if they don’t. It’s possible that you may not fully understand yourself either. By valuing your own thoughts, you will express and communicate them openly, rationally, and maturely to others. Likewise, you will respect their thoughts and be willing to listen, leading to a realization that everything can be quite simple.
This may sound like a cliché, but it truly holds great significance. Why do we say that to love others, we must first love ourselves? Because only when we are in a good emotional state can we interact positively with those around us. Many people inadvertently bring work-related stress or negativity home, which can lead to a negative attitude towards the most important people in their lives. Isn’t it unfortunate? You have promised to love this person through all circumstances, yet trivial matters may disrupt your connection with them.
In conclusion, as we celebrate the strength and resilience of women, let’s embrace the vital practice of self-love. By prioritizing our own well-being, we not only enrich our lives but also cultivate healthier relationships with our partners and families. Remember, loving yourself is the foundation upon which you can build a fulfilling life together.
