How to Write On a Laisee Packet for Newlyweds

After deciding how much to put into the laisee for the bride and groom whose wedding you’re attending, you will now have to write on the laisee packet.  You might be wondering, what should you write on the laisee packet? Generally, you should write the newlyweds’ names on top right, and your name(s) at bottom left. Then in the center, you can write all the blessings you wish for them. Don’t rush when writing your blessings because these are your special intentions for the couple. Here’s a more detailed step-by-step guide on what to write on your laisee packet. We also included some blessings you can use or take inspiration from.

[From: A Traditional Wedding Decked with Beautiful Red, White, and Gold Details / Photo: miLa Story]


Step 1: Address the couple. There is no need for anything very fancy, just their names will do.

Step 2: Write your name (this is a must!) so that the couple knows who the laisee is from. Couples usually send “thank you” cards after the wedding to each of their guests and for all the gifts. Write your name so they can fully appreciate you, your gift, and thank you for it later on.

Step 3: Consider how much you can afford to put inside or your relationship with the bride and groom. If you’re not sure, you can read this guide on how much to put inside a laisee packet.

Step 4: Do not glue the laisee packet to seal it. Just fold the tab; this is fine.

Step 5: Write your blessings. Here’s a simple layout guide you can follow and a list of blessings you can include. But of course, feel free to compose your own blessings. Adding a personal message will be meaningful too.


Reference List of Blessings

[From: Couple Shares How They Pulled Off an Intimate Wedding Amidst the COVID-19 Outbreak / Photo: Patrick Photography]


1.      新婚誌喜
2.     永結同心
3.     緣訂三生
4.     鸞鳳和鳴
5.     天作之合
6.     心心相印
7.     美滿良緣
8.     白頭到老
9.     佳偶天成
10.   比翼雙飛




[From: This Classic Red and Pastel Themed Wedding is Set in a Quaint Garden / Photo: Emma Fok Photography]


Congratulations and have a beautiful honeymoon.


You two are the prince and princess in a fairy tale. May you live happily ever after!


May you two always stay in love! And may your happiness continue to grow with age!


More happiness and best love.


I hope that this is the beginning of a wonderful life together.


I wish you much happiness together.


Best wishes and may you two be blessed with many years of happiness.


Best wishes for a joyful home together.


May everyday in your life together be as full of happiness and joy as your wedding day.


The two of you make a perfect couple.


For a special couple: Congratulations on your wedding!


I am filled with such joy at the sight of you two beginning a new life together.


This is truly a joyous time. Congratulations and good luck.


May God bless you and surround you forever with His blessing.


May you two always stay in love! And may your happiness continue to grow with age!


May your marriage be blessed with faith, joy, and love.


We never knew two people better suited to each other.


Wishing you a world of happiness and love and that all your dreams come true.


As you start your married life together hand in hand, may all the things you’re hoping for turn out the way you’ve planned.


To the happy couple, congratulations on this happy occasion and best wishes for everything good in the years to come.




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